Ever tried doing something alone, thinking that you’re the only person on this planet feeling the way you do?
For the most part I involve many people in inspiring me, and supporting me in moving forward. Some areas of my life I am better at this than others. One area of my life that I’m not so great in this, is in business.
I am really great at supporting and providing mentorship, advice (when asked) and support to others. When it’s time for the focus on me, I become uncomfortable and play small. Going easily into overwhelm at all the pressure I put on myself. When all it can take is the collaborative efforts and feedback of a group of people that can bring me back to reality and focus.
In coaching one of my favorite exercises with clients was the Mentor’s Table. Inviting at least three people you look up to, into your conscious mind and to ask their support and opinions in a visualization exercise.
Who would be on your mentor’s table?
What’s even better as a step up, is to have a real life Mentor’s Table. A group of people to run ideas off, gain insight and clarity, ask for honest feedback and at times – lift you up and empower you when you’re ready to give up. Some may relate this to a Mastermind Group. Yesterday I had the opportunity to be part of an incredible group of brilliant minds. An opportunity created by Tad Hardgrave of Marketing for Hippies. What unfolded for me personally was an outpouring of bonding, wisdom, ideas, powerful questions, kindness, honesty and support. I could really keep going with the gifts I received.
Last night when I arrived home I was exhausted, my mind had been stimulated, my emotions and spirit released and felt heard. Instead of logging on to technology I reflected on the wise, incredible notes from all who were there yesterday. The words of wisdom, kindness, and support touched my heart to the core. I took the time to journal and look within my heart and listen. I am eternally grateful for all the kind souls present yesterday Jill Ethier of Unleash Your Greatness, Kristin Allen, Charlotte Lammerhirt, Jackie Dumaine and Gemma Stone who hosted this amazing gathering and provided the healthiest, most delicious lunch I have ever had. Also to Tad’s Guest participants and faculty who brought such incredible insights, experience and knowledge Javan Bernakevitch, Kurt Archer and Rob Sinclair. Thank you guys, you ROCK!
This morning as I opened my inbox, Tad had sent me an email, directly related to the question I posed to the group yesterday. He sent me the link to Your deepest wound is your niche after reading it, and the great case studies he shared I didn’t feel so alone.
Who are you gaining strength and wisdom from?
“My opinion, my conviction, gains immensely in strength and sureness the minute a second mind has adopted it.”
~Novalis (1772 – 1801), German Author and Philosopher ~
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